Every marriage is ultimately in the hands of husband and wife. Any one can ruin it, and Any one can make it fun. But when it comes to have a really good, fun, enjoyable, delighful married life, it can not be just one. It has to be a joint effort.

Marriage is like a cart with two wheels. If one wheel is stuck, so is the cart. You can not move further no matter how much you struggle. There must be a balance. A balance diet is very common, but have you heard of a balanced marriage?

I bet you have, but may be you don’t really know how to have a balanced marriage and happy married life. Well, here i am sharing some tips for a balanced marriage..learn the ropes and pretty soon you will have a fulfilling and rewarding life.

1. For a balanced diet, first you need to understand your body and your metabolism. Similarily for a balanced marriage you need to understand the emotions, behaviour and nature of your life partner. If you don’t know what your body wants, you can not keep it well.  So is the case with the significant half - if you dont know what turns them on, what makes them smile, or what makes them furious, you are always going to be in trouble no matter what. Try to know more and more about your partner and believe me, it will make your life a lot easier.


Need a hint? Try Linda Goodmans Sun Signs or Love Signs book - Linda Goodman’s Love Signs: A New Approach to the Human Heart - to know more about the nature, emotional behaviour, likes and dislikes of your partner and loved ones.

2. When you are on a balanced diet and you accidently eat more what do you do? you make up with extra exercise. Do the same in your relationship. If you make a mistake, be open and ready to admit it. Say sorry, fix the mistake if possible, and move on. Life is too short to fight on small issues like this.

One Response to “A Balanced Marriage.”

  1. Hi Pallavi,
    How are you?
    Didn’t know you were in blogging.
    I really liked your example,’Marriage is like a cart with two wheels’. So true!
    Best wishes!

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